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In my retrospection, I've done many childish and selfish things in the first relationship. Pinning too much faith on your beloved one would only make bed for the following disappointments. Those grievous days, days when you knew that a broken mirror would never join together, carved out many negative feelings in heart. It was vivid, and once in a while leaped itself out. I was then desperately overwhelmed by a strong sense of loss, disappointments, regrets, helplessness...all negative feelings... I rejected to go out of the dorm room and see those familiar environments on campus. Tears, for girls, could be so easily out of control that they seemed to take away all together with the appetite and strength. Then staying in the dorm room turned out to be indeed a wise choice, allowing me to cry for a while and lie in bed for another while without feeling awkward. Then those bad feelings began to horsewhip me to reconsider what love is all about...and with what kind of protection could I survive in the second (and hopefully the last) relationship. Falling in love is like two people, who have been strangers, suddenly let the wall between them break down, and feel close, feel one. This moment of oneness if one of the most exhilarating, most exciting experiences in life. However, this type of love is by its very nature not lasting. The two persons become well acquainted, their intimacy loses more and more its miraculous character, until their disappointment, their mutual boredom kill whatever is left of the initial excitement. Therefore, "falling for" love is no better than "standing" in love. 大家都在尋覓愛，然而成熟的愛是給予而不是霸占。戀愛固然盲目，不夠配對(duì)的伴侶卻遲早要面對(duì)終結(jié)的審判。我跟穎姐開玩笑說，眼光不要太高，該妥協(xié)就妥協(xié)。發(fā)自內(nèi)心，卻欣賞她的感情潔癖。怎么能確定和這人能一直開開心心生活呢：先匹配，而后求同存異。接受對(duì)方本來的面目，也尊重他/她按自己的方式去“成長(zhǎng)”。Love is an activity, not a passive affect. It's more about giving, not receiving. A feeling comes and it may go, while true love could stay forever, with its firm commitments to support and the most genuine appreciation... TOO late! Good night!! Chancy, the single dog 4th, August, 2017 感覺上次寫的很潦草，有空改… 現(xiàn)在覺著不管怎樣陰晴圓缺，兩個(gè)人在一起要比單身時(shí)候更開心，這就很好了。 如果觀察小孩子，發(fā)現(xiàn)他們的快樂特別簡(jiǎn)單。煩惱來了，哭一哭，隔天就沒有影子了。他們愛自己，也偏愛自己喜歡的某些人，并且不加遮掩；沒有有色眼鏡也不懂身份標(biāo)簽，"紛紛擾擾與我無關(guān)"。。。當(dāng)大家都優(yōu)秀的時(shí)候，能保持童心的人就變得特別了。 2017.8.23 Chancy at home |
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