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The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don't listen. Either a man completely ignores her when she speaks, or he listens for a few beats, assesses what is bothering her, and then he proudly puts on his Mr. Fix It cap and offers her a solution to make her feel better. No matter how many times she tells him that he's not listening, he doesn't get it and keeps doing the same thing. She wants empathy, he thinks she wants solutions. 女人對男人最常見的抱怨是男人不肯傾聽。當(dāng)女人說話時,男人不管是忽略還是聽一點點,在評估過困擾女人的原因后,他們都會驕傲地戴上"修理先生"的帽子,提供一個能夠令女人好過一點的解答。當(dāng)她不感激這個愛的姿態(tài)時,他就覺得迷惑,不管她告訴他多少次他沒在聽她說什么,他仍然依舊不聽,且一直做著同樣的事。女人要的是感情的共鳴,但男人以為她要解答。 The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves a man she feels responsible to assist him in growing and tries to help him improve the way he does things. She forms the Home Improvement Committee, and he becomes her primary focus. No matter how much he resists her help, she persists waiting for an opportunity to help him or tell him what to do. She thinks she's nurturing him, while he feels he's being controlled. Instead, he wants her acceptance. 男人對女人最常見的抱怨是女人總是企圖要改變他們。當(dāng)女人愛上男人時,她覺得有責(zé)任幫助他成長,并幫他改善他的做事方式。她組織一個"改善家庭委員會",男人便成了她注意的主要焦點。不管他如何拒絕她的幫助,她都堅持等待任何幫助他的機會或告訴他該做什么。她以為她在教育他,但他卻覺得被控制了。結(jié)果他反過來要求她的接受。 These two problems can finally be solved by first understanding why men offer solutions and why women seek to improve.Let's pretend to go back in time, and observe life on Mars and Venus -before the planets discovered one another or came to Earth we can gain some insights into men and women. 這兩個問題可借由先了解為何男人提供解答、女人尋求改善來解決。讓我們假裝回到從前,觀察火星和金星上的生活--在地球未彼發(fā)現(xiàn)或他們未來到地球以前--我們可以觀察到男人與女人。 [ 來自科研家族 夢里的棉花糖 ] |
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